4 Things to Consider Before Getting Back with Your Ex
Article by Ben Haynes
Sometimes in life, a face that once meant everything to you resurfaces. Times like these can bring about a range of feelings for anybody. One thing you might find yourself wondering when this happens is, "What if we got back together?" Exploring what might have been or could be with any past relationship is perfectly healthy. However, if you're genuinely considering getting back together with an ex, it's time to ask some crucial questions.How Much Has He Changed?
Let's face it: your relationship with this person ended for a reason (or maybe several of them). You can only get back together with someone if you carefully assess who they used to be versus who they are now. If you notice that there has been a significant shift in the person who stands before you, asking for your love again, it could be worth your time to explore the possibilities. However, if all you see is the exact same person from whenever you last dated, odds are they have stayed the same, and it might not be wise to go any further.How Much Have YOU Changed?
Ideally, the person you're considering rekindling a flame with is wondering this question about you. Personal growth is a must for every human being. If you look back at the memories, social media posts, and photos of your times with your ex and cringe a little, odds are you've made some significant progress since then. But if not, you should reevaluate if this time is any different than the last. If you're in the same place as last time, why would this time be different?